Letter Post-Dated April 17, 2006 (continued)
I decided that I should just post the rest of my Declarations letter. I’m moving towards a state of “full self-expression” [thanks Mikkel]
Declarations for Our Personal Lives
Andy feels more alive today than ever before. Pro-growth people flock to him. He gives of himself freely. And they contribute to his abundance. Andy inspires others to be extraordinary. Andy has a core group of 10 like-minded pro-growth friends that spur him on to greatness!
Eileen enjoys mentoring 3 women (1:1). She participates in a mother’s group at Peninsula Bible Church and the others enjoy her encouragement. Eileen loves cooking great meals for our family and it’s effortless for her.
Andy learned to like ballroom dancing as much as Eileen and now it’s part of our repertoire of social skills. Andy became a -10 handicap golfer and spends quality time with friends at the country club. The other Sea Pearl Dads appreciate Andy’s contribution and leadership to the YMCA Adventure Guides
Declarations for our Spiritual Lives
1 Peter 2:9 But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to God, that you may declare praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.
I got “present” to who I’ve “been” in order to become who I’m meant to “be”. I had to confront the demons that have been tormenting my mind for so many years. It didn’t feel good to dig up all the negative experiences that caused me to create defense mechanisms as a little boy. I finally experienced the freedom from others people’s approval! In fact, I shared the yucky emontional junk with others so that they could support me. I felt so relieved to know that people would still like me afterwards!
We deepened our relationship with God at a new local church that has great worship services, teaching, children’s programs, a community that encourages us to be real, and opportunities to exercise our gifts in serving others. Eileen was welcomed into a women’s discipleship group. Andy found his place among other men who accepted him and encouraged him. Our kids love being there, too!
We funded a missionary project in China and planned a trip to visit it in the Summer of 2007. Andy went through EQUIP training to repurpose his business as a ministry to others.
Declarations for our Physical Lives
Eileen weighs 110lbs, has a fit body with tight abs, arms, and thighs.
Andy works out daily to maintain his good health and wakes up every morning full of energy. Andy’s good posture makes him 2 inches taller and gives him a more handsome physical presence. Andy plays basketball twice a week, including drills on our new basketball court at the house. He regained his jumpshot from college and improved his quickness and footspeed. He fell in love with the sport all over again!
